src: major cleanups, introduce new eXtended Span class

- initial minimally invasive eXtended Span implementation
- rename ptr_diff to ptr_diff_bytes
- move some files to util subdir
- lots of cleanups
- start using the new checked pointers - this needs some real-world testing

src/stub/tools/macho-snip/macho-snip.c

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-// SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-2.0+
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-2.0-or-later
 // Copyright 2022 BitWagon Software LLC.  All rights reserved.
 
 #include <errno.h>